Category Archives: Hospice & Home Care

Congratulations to the Treusdells, celebrating 70 years of marriage

Dale and Dorothy Treusdell celebrated their 70th wedding anniversary on Monday, March 16, while receiving respite care at Cottage in the Meadow. Dale met Dorothy when he was home recovering from malaria – he served in the U.S. Marine Corps during World War II, including at Guadalcanal. They married on March 16, 1945 and have three children and four grandchildren.

Dale worked for several years for the U.S. Public Health Service, helping to establish guidelines for physicians assistant programs nationally and a hospice program for terminally ill seamen.  Dale and Dorothy lived in four different states and Washington, D.C., before settling in Yakima in 1979.

Dale says home hospice care and Cottage have made a huge difference in his quality of life. “Cottage turned out to be our home away from home.”

His son, Dennis, says “hospice is a blessing.”

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Hospice appreciated

Hospice appreciated – From the Yakima Herald
Elna Iseminger

To the editor — My husband recently passed away from Alzheimer’s disease. In September, he was referred to Yakima Valley Memorial Hospital’s Hospice team. I had no idea what to expect. Everyone was compassionate and worked hard to keep my husband comfortable in his final weeks and days.

I will be forever grateful for the care they provided that allowed me to keep him at home with me. Thanks so much.

Mariachi at Cottage

Apple Valley Dental 'OhanaJuan, a Cottage patient stated as his profession, “Mariachi Band member.” Apparently his gift of music and entertainment was passed on to his family. In celebration of him and his work, 40 plus family members gathered at the Cottage and listened to the next generation of Mariachi musicians. Children, friends, cousins, aunts, uncles, and siblings all gathered around their loved one in the Great Room at the Cottage in the Meadow to share their precious last moments with Juan.


Memorial Hospice: Caring for our veterans

Currently, Memorial Hospice cares for fifteen veterans. Staff delivered special service pins and “Welcome Home Vietnam”  pins yesterday to all of our veterans. Cali Hunn, a social worker, said her veteran was overwhelmed and thrilled. He pinned it on his pajamas and said “I’ve never seen anything like this – thank you so much – it means so much to me – I won’t ever take it off.”

Children’s Bereavement Workshop on Sept. 28

Do you know a child who is grieving the loss of a parent or other close loved one? Yakima Valley Memorial Hospital is offering a hands-on workshop to help guide children ages 4-17 and their parents or guardians through the grief associated with death.

Laurie Oswalt and Julie Cicero appeared on KIT 1280 on Sept. 9, 2014, to discuss the workshop.

The workshop will provide an opportunity for children to express their feelings and thoughts through creative activities and meet others who have experienced a similar loss. While children are participating in activities to assist their recovery, parents and guardians will be involved in their own grief recovery program geared for adults.

Key points about grieving children:

  • Every kid grieves differently. There is no right or wrong way to grieve.
  • Can be feelings of anger, sadness, worry, relief, fear or numbness.

How a child or teen grieves varies depending on a number of factors:

  • what social support systems are available – family or friends
  • the circumstances of the death – how, when and where the person died
  • the nature of the relationship with the person who died – harmonious or conflicted
  • the child or teen’s involvement in the dying process
  • previous experiences with death

This workshop is intended to help children and teens work through these feelings and safely share them in a safe environment. Activities include writing, drawing, team-building and art.

This workshop will be held:

Sunday, Sept. 28, 2014

11:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m.

Children’s Village, 3801 Kern Road, Yakima

Lunch will be provided for every family, and parents are encouraged to enjoy lunch with the children before the activities begin. This workshop is provided at no charge to participants.

For more information or to register, contact Denise Mitzel at 577-5062 or

Registrations will be accepted until Sept. 26, 2014.

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Grief recovery groups beginning this fall

Living with Loss—an 8-week discussion-based course working through the book Understanding Your Grief: Ten Essential Touchstones for Finding Hope and Healing Your Heart.
Cost is $20 for book/materials, payable on the first day of class
Tuesdays from 6 – 7 pm at the Harman Center
Beginning September 23
Contact Memorial Hospice at 574-3670 to register for this class

Grief Recovery Workshop—an 8-week course centered around personal discovery and homework-style exercises designed to help you focus on grief recovery. This class utilizes the book The Grief Recovery Handbook.
Cost is $20 for book/materials, payable on the first day of class
Thursdays from 1:00 pm – 2:00 pm at Cottage in the Meadow
Beginning September 25
Contact Memorial Hospice at 574-3670 to register for this class

How to help a friend with cancer

Someone you care about is facing cancer, and you want—very much—to support your friend. But you don’t know what to say or do.

You’re hardly alone with how you feel.

For many of us, cancer is a frightening disease, and something frightening can make us feel uneasy. So if you feel uncomfortable reaching out, it might help to know that one of the most meaningful ways to offer support is to simply be available to listen. In fact, it’s even OK to say: “I don’t know what to say. But I care, and I’m sorry you’re going through this.”

And while there are no set rules for helping someone with cancer—different people may have different needs—there are some general do’s and don’ts.

Do: Don’t:
Become informed. As a first step, try to learn about your friend’s diagnosis—for instance, by finding out the basic details from a family member or mutual friend. It might be draining for your friend to repeat the same information to several people. Be afraid to talk about the illness. And if your friend feels anxious or sad, allow your friend to express these feelings.
Follow your friend’s cues. Your friend may feel relieved to talk openly about his or her illness. Or the opposite might be true. Your friend might need privacy. Respect your friend’s desires. Offer advice if not asked. Also, respect your friend’s treatment decisions, even if you disagree.
Try not to let cancer dominate your friendship. As much as possible, try to treat your friend as you always have. Talk to your friend about his or her interests that have nothing at all to do with cancer. Feel you have to respond. A caring listener may be the best medicine of all.
Offer to help in concrete ways. You might volunteer to cook dinner, pick up prescriptions or babysit if your friend has children. Make assumptions. Try not to tell your friend, “I know how you feel.” You really can’t, unless you’ve also faced cancer.

Sources: American Cancer Society; American Society of Clinical Oncology

For caregivers: 6 medication safety tips

As a caregiver, you have a lot of responsibilities—one of which may be helping your loved one manage medications. This can be a complex task, particularly if he or she takes multiple meds.

Here are six ways to help you keep things safe and simple:

1. Make a list of every medication your loved one takes. This includes prescription and non-prescription drugs, as well as nutritional supplements and vitamins. Give a copy to each health care provider that your loved one sees. And keep one with you in case of an emergency.

2. Ask a doctor or pharmacist to review that list at least once a year and look for possible drug interactions.

3. Be sure you know what each medication is for and how each one should be given. You might want to use a pill box organizer to help keep everything straight.

4. If a medication has to be injected or requires special preparation at home, be sure you learn the proper technique. Work with your loved one’s doctor or nurse until you’re comfortable doing it yourself.

5. Store medications together, if possible. That way, they’ll be easy to find in an emergency. Look for a cool, dry place out of reach of children. Medications that need to be chilled should have their own spot in the refrigerator.

6. Never share your loved one’s medicine with others. Properly discard any leftover or expired medicines. Ask a pharmacist for instructions if you don’t know how to do this.

Sources: Family Caregiver Alliance; U.S. Food and Drug Administration

Memorial wins national award for end-of-life and palliative care efforts


Contacts: Shannon Dininny, Memorial Communications, 509.577.5051; Elizabeth Lietz, American Hospital Association, 202.626.2284

Memorial earns prestigious national award recognizing end-of-life care efforts

YAKIMA – Yakima Valley Memorial Hospital has been named a 2014 Circle of Life Award winner for its comprehensive programs to improve the care of patients near the end of life or with life-limiting conditions – one of just three honorees in the country.

The Circle of Life Award celebrates innovative programs that have made great strides in palliative and end-of-life care across the nation. In its 15th year, the Circle of Life Award is presented annually by the American Hospital Association.

Memorial operates a hospice house, Cottage in the Meadow, which was made possible through generous community support, and offers a largely volunteer-driven Transitions palliative care program that serves more than 200 patients each year in their homes. Monthly community talks provide guidance on various subjects, such as living wills and advance directives, coping with grief during the holidays and addressing special needs of veterans, and Memorial’s outreach programs work to build dialogue within our multicultural Yakima Valley about end-of-life issues.

“There’s a movement in this community to better respond to the needs and wishes of our loved ones as they approach end of life or face advanced illnesses. We value our role in this effort and will continue to help facilitate these conversations,” said Anne Caffery, president of The Memorial Foundation. “Our goal has always been for Cottage in the Meadow to belong to this community, and Cottage is just a snippet of the programs and services this award recognizes. We’re grateful to be recognized.”

Memorial was chosen by a selection committee made up of leaders from medicine, nursing, social work, ethics and health administration. The committee recognized Memorial for its efforts to provide palliative and end-of-life care programs throughout the Memorial Family of Services and to actively identify and work to meet community needs, including the needs of low-income and ethnically-diverse individuals. The committee also noted Transitions palliative care, fully funded by The Memorial Foundation, as a product of visionary leadership and strong community partnerships that offers a patient- and family-centered approach with extraordinary spiritual care and creative use of volunteers.

“This award is recognition of our staff, our many volunteers and our community as a whole. More and more, our community is engaging in the conversation about end-of-life and palliative care – what it looks like, who can benefit and how everyone should live the life they want to the end,” Memorial Vice President Diane Patterson said. “We’re thrilled to have our community so honored.”

The 2014 Circle of Life Award honorees will receive Circle of Life crystals commemorating their achievements at the AHA-Health Forum Leadership Summit Monday, July 21, in San Diego. Recognized with Memorial will be Baylor Health Care System Supportive and Palliative Care Services in Dallas, Texas, and Lehigh Valley Health Network in Allentown, Pennsylvania.

“This year’s Circle of Life honorees have made end-of-life and palliative care a key part of their care mission,” AHA President and CEO Rich Umbdenstock said. “These programs have found new ways to expand the reach of palliative and end-of-life care to patients, families and communities. They are model programs that other hospitals and health care systems can adapt and we are pleased to recognize the great strides they are taking in providing dedicated, compassionate care.”

Upon review, a select number of Circle of Life nominees were visited by the selection committee, including programs that:

  • provide effective, patient- and family-centered, timely, safe, efficient and equitable palliative and end-of-life care;
  • strive to implement the domains of the National Consensus Project Clinical Practice Guidelines for Quality Palliative Care;
  • utilize innovative approaches to critical needs and serve as sustainable, replicable models for the field;
  • seek to address multi-faceted needs of persons living with serious illness throughout the disease trajectory;
  • demonstrate significant impact on people with life-limiting illness and those around them;
  • work with other health care organizations, education and training programs and the community.

The 2014 awards are supported, in part, by the California HealthCare Foundation and the Cambia Health Foundation. Major sponsors are the American Hospital Association, the Catholic Health Association, the National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization and the National Hospice Foundation. The awards are cosponsored by the American Academy of Hospice and Palliative Medicine, the Hospice and Palliative Nurses Association, the National Board for Certification of Hospice and Palliative Nurses and the Hospice and Palliative Nurses Foundation, and the National Association of Social Workers. The Circle of Life Award is a program administered by the Health Research and Educational Trust.

 About Memorial

Yakima Valley Memorial Hospital is a 226-bed, acute-care, not-for-profit, community hospital serving Central Washington’s Yakima Valley. Memorial Family of Services includes primary care practices and specialty care services, including high-quality cardiac care, a continuum of cancer care, hospice care and advanced services for children with special health care needs. Visit Memorial online at or on Facebook (, Twitter ( or Pinterest ( The Memorial Foundation has raised and distributed $45 million toward innovative health care programs in the Yakima Valley (

About AHA

The AHA is a not-for-profit association of health care provider organizations and individuals that are committed to the improvement of health in their communities. The AHA is the national advocate for its members, which include nearly 5,000 hospitals, health care systems, networks and other providers of care. Founded in 1898, the AHA provides education for health care leaders and is a source of information on health care issues and trends. For more information visit the website at